royal random

I've had a brilliant week and have been very busy.

Five friends and I stayed the night in an expansive apartment, rose at 4am and watched the wedding!

tea

There was tea...

mimosas

Mimosas, scones...

tiara&roses

tiaras and the television.

And, as one of our company departs for her own tiny wedding in Madrid next week -

ring

a ring!

the ring

The girls bought E, our own bride, a princess engagement ring!

mexplains

M explained everything to us. Our resident commentator. Here, she is, I believe, explaining the bridesmaids.

We trudged off to work together for a day of huge meetings, a bake off, and a party at the end of our long day.

cupcakes

groom's cake

cakepops

Aren't those adorable? Cake pops! (Which we don't even want to SEE the recipe for, believe me.)

It was a beautiful wedding and I'm still reading all about it. My favorite piece? This one.

Hmm. Look at that. This didn't really turn out to be random at all.

and what of the Little Black Dress?

My re-entry has been hectic and I have two after-hours events this week at work, but I know you're wondering...did I wear the little black dress in Holland? How much?
The answer is yes, yes I DID.

dress cold day

The very first day started out kind of cold but our jackets were quickly abandoned.
Here's the LBD with a long sleeved tee shirt, leggings, a scarf and boots - and a coat.

black dress

Not quite believing our luck, I donned (and then ditched) a sweater on the second day. Worn with jeans and a black tee.

inAmsterdam

Don't we look like an album cover? Middle has great shots of the bunch of us (we were joined by cousins)looking like rock stars. Sorry, this is all you get of it.
LBD worn collarless, with tights and sneakers. I think I had a white scarf in my bag.

beach

On the beach, just below the C'est La Vie pavillion. See me squinting? That's a $10.00 H&M dress under the LBD.


I wore the LBD last night to a semi-formalish work event with a long sleeved maxi dress under it and got lots of compliments.
I think I could probably wear it every day!

back to work!

I was happy to see an email from my boss yesterday. He didn't mean for me to deal with it on a Sunday but needed to mention some things about our week.  It helped me out of my jet-lag fog (is it really that? or a cold?) and got me to focus on work, where there are dozens of emails awaiting me.
Not complaining!

We've had a couple of meals featuring beef rather than beer and that's a nice change too.
I've given Youngest a practice college entrance exam, I've put away the 400 (est.) toiletries we brought with us and everyone has clean clothes for the week ahead.

I worked hard to stay up till ten last night as I have a date with a bunch of work friends to spend the night in town and watch the royal wedding early on Friday morning and I'm worried that I'll doze off. Then again, my new habit of waking at four could prove handy.

You've seen this, haven't you?


It was posted all over the place recently but, you know, I've been without internet.

When we went away we all spent time debating which coats to bring and not only was it quite warm in Holland but we returned to higher temperatures at home too. I think the coats can be put away and I'm glad about it. Turtlenecks too? I guess I know what I'm doing next weekend.

flowers

Birds are chirping and singing outside.

flowers

I'm off to work!

words and pictures

I'm in a fog!
Noon does, indeed, feel like six pm and I'm sleeping the sleep of the dead.
I'm nearly done sorting and arranging and am acutely aware, having spent the week in an empty house (furniture and cooking utensils only), that we must de-crappify our home. I'm going to make it a mission just as soon as I'm acclimated. You are my witness.

Easter

Easter is a nice time to see The Netherlands. Things are blooming.

Leffe

Leffe wins as favorite beer. Both double and triple. I no longer know what that means. Triple is dark?
Maybe.

market

The market. Where? Don't know. Goes, Delft or Middelburg.

lace

Grammy and I were very tempted by the lace at the markets. Looking back, I'm glad I didn't buy any as it doesn't fit in my house. But we sent K back to get Grammy some for over her sink and the vendor was at lunch.

oilcloth

But we bought oilcloth! Meters and meters of it! Overwhelmed by the low price (it's costly here) and the availability, we miscalculated how much of it any one person could use. We are wealthy in oilcloth!
(We bought the blue Delft pattern and the postcard-looking pattern.)

boyseat

The six of us arrived in Middelburg as I wanted to go to Hema and the boys disappeared. It was the first moment they sought time on their own.

boyshema

Where were they? Upstairs eating lunch.

housewares

I went to the most wonderful housewares store there too. I wanted everything in the place and was wandering with my mouth hanging open. Youngest removed me.

shells

Seashells in a window in the beautiful little town of Goes.

Goescrop

It truly was one of those places that seems unreal.

jet lag/sore throat/who knows

Yes, yes.
I know. My unbelievably loyal little gaggle of friends here is waiting breathlessly for photographic evidence of my trip. Meanwhile, I am on the precipice of not remembering anything about the entire week and have, twice, lapsed into coma-like sleep. Several of us have ripping-sore throats and I fear it isn't that airplane sore throat one gets as Middle started it a couple of days ago. In Amsterdam. Each time I sleep my head gets fuzzier and I start to forget details and days - and there were many. Truly, it's the sleep of the dead, and the exhaustion of the...the...world traveler? I tend to travel yearly and I'd like to think I don't fall into coma-like jet lag but this trip (I've been home less than 24 hours) is kicking my ass.

Isn't that lovely? That's a photo Middle took in Amsterdam. I'm sorry,  I didn't like Amsterdam. It's pretty in that shot and there were some very pretty streets but it was very loud and hot and mealy. Can I say that? It wasn't the guys smoking or the people. In fact, the people in Amsterdam (and I don't mean the visitors though there were many) were very nice - whereas the people in the countryside were somewhat stern and not especially warm. I had also been biased against Amsterdam as E was robbed there and I was feeling very protective of our group. There were signs everywhere warning about pickpockets and it is no busier than my city, but still. It seemed slightly evil - and I suppose it is, and I'm generally very good in foreign cities. Amsterdam was a side trip for dinner after Kuekenhof with E's cousins, L and R.  It was wonderful to see them - she, tiny and perky and always fun and he, scowling and growling and hysterically funny. They were in the middle of a four week tour and were, coincidentally, in Amsterdam while we were in Holland - our time with them was very dear.
You see, our trip was meant, from the beginning, to be a visit to what we are now calling The Cape Cod of The Netherlands. The small town we were staying in is a short drive from the shore and, as we were leaving on Friday the crowds were already beginning to arrive for their Easter holidays.

The general area of our visit:


Amsterdam to the north and Leiden (a beautiful and very affluent area it seemed to me), which we drove through several times, then Delft, which we visited, and then the islands. We were on the middle island.


We also went to Middelburg and Goes on their market days. (Goes is pronounced Hooesh.)

We were based in Burgh and crossed the bridges/deltaworks/dikes above and below us to travel each day to markets and harbors and local sites.
We considered and omitted visits to lots of places to be able to have a family vacation in the country much like our yearly trek to the Cape. What was extra special about this trip was that the five of us were together which has not happened on a vacation in several years.


Here's another from Middle - the church in Delft. I know it looks dark and cold but nothing could be further from the truth. It was sunny and 80 degrees, and the Dutch ice cream is good on a hot day in a square in Delft. I definitely gained some weight on this trip.


Our final dinner.
More later!

across the world

Only two posts and I'm back home in my bed. I have to say: this amazes me. I got up this morning, finished the packing, tidied up and took the trash away. We piled all of our things into the cars and set off for the airport. And here I am. A short hop from Amsterdam to London, London for as long as it took to find the plane and then a long flight home. It was very nearly comfortable (British Air, a, seemingly, new plane, smaller than the one we took over.) and W met us at the airport with our car.
I have toilet stories and cheese stories and cousin stories and, well, lots of things to tell, but I'm tired and happy and am going to bed.
I'll put together a nice big post tomorrow. With pictures!

more from Holland

We’re getting used to life in Holland, which entails avoiding bicyclists whilst downshifting BMW’s with dozens of German luxury features – which are labeled in German.
We’ve done Dutch laundry, we’ve had even more beer, and we’ve eaten in a very swank restaurant in Zeirkzee beneath a beautiful orange moon (orange above all, Grammy told us). Youngest has been equipped with a bike and we have arranged for a visit to the school (they’ve called a reporter!).

This morning, moving slowly, we made our way to the beach, as this is a shore town.
The Dutch seaside is part of the grand display of engineering that we see all the time here. Massive efforts to hold the sea in place are everywhere you look. (You can google the story of how Holland was built.) We are often below sea-level. The dikes and deltaworks are amazing and all around us are giant those giant wind turbine things. (It’s terrible, isn’t it, that I don’t know the name of them?)
So. The beach.

beach

The beach pavilion. C’est La Vie.

c'est la vie

After the beach, Middelburg, where I hit the Hema and we looked at a chocolate laptop, and we tried to get inside a church. It seems all the churches in Holland are locked. We settled at an outdoor café and had some lunch.
I’ll tell you, menus are difficult. With English, a good waitstaff, a smattering of Dutch, French and Italian between us, we are able to decipher things, but it’s work.
Fortunately, people have been very patient with us and we haven’t made too many mistakes.

Well, one mistake. We have electronic keys to get in and out of the community/resort we are staying in. Tonight, in an act of kindness, I let someone into the driveway with my key. It was a German fellow with a car packed full of pillows and luggage. He was searching through his trunk to find his key while we were leaving. I thought I’d be nice and swipe him in so he didn’t have to struggle and so I did. I noticed an employee of the resort smirking at me but thought it was a typical Dutch reaction – which is not to say the Dutch are not a lovely people, but happy? Jovial? I’d have to say no.
Anyway, in using my key card inappropriately I voided it.
We were on our way out to find some dinner, which we did not find!

It’s a tiny place we are staying in, and it’s Monday night. Most places are closed. There was a pizza joint a ways away but Middle told us he didn’t come to Holland to eat pizza.
Hence, the men have borrowed a key card and run off to the supermarket for more cheese and beer.

Because we haven’t had enough cheese and beer.

(I said we should pretend we were a Dutch war-time family and eat what we have. And what do we have? Bread, Nutella, water, milk and a box of Frosties. Grammy suggested spec and eggs and that's what they've brought!)

organgrinder

The organ-grinder is at each market day. When you give him a coin he tips his hat. His monkey is not real, which is just the way I like them.

table

The kitchen table. Nuff said.

cafe

The cafe in Middelburg.

speck

A metric ton of spec(k).

Leffe

Leffe double. Nectar.

Holland: The First Report

It’s been 48 hours. Wait. I don’t know. When did we leave? Okay, It’s Saturday night but I won’t have internet access until at least tomorrow so who knows what day it will be by the time this posts. Couple that with the fact that we left on Thursday afternoon (3pm) and traveled for nearly 24 hours (3pm NLtime) to reach our destination and you may have a vague idea of how I feel.
powerairport
(totally ghetto'd power set-up at the airport)

Suffice to say: we arrived. There were no complications (in fact, all went smoothly) and, aside from odiferous seat-mates, it was an uneventful journey. My friend J was right, however, and I quote: Heathrow is a mother-fucker. I’ll make several suggestions in this post – the first two are: don’t order the chicken curry on British Air and do ask for wheelchair assistance at Heathrow. Honestly, we took two escalators, three elevators and one bus to a stairway to make our connection. Even then, a representative from the airline handed us a wheelchair, pointed vaguely toward a massive hallway and left us on our own. But none of this matters. What you need to know is that we have arrived and hit the ground running. We aren’t running so much now,  on Sunday, but we ran pretty well up till now. There have been several, no many, points to note. Somehow, after making reservations for two very inexpensive rental vehicles at the Amsterdam airport, we arrived and were told that, for no additional charge, we would be driving two brand-spanking-new BMW’s. Oldest got the “little car”  - a four door coupe with a massive engine and I am driving a wagon. The other bonus? Both cars have navigation systems. Now, I won’t understate in either direction here, K did an astounding job of plotting our locations and excursions from home and printing maps and directions. He was ready with all kinds of material to assist us with our day trips. But the cars came with nav systems which we would not have paid for and having now driven about 300km and experienced the Dutch cities between Amsterdam and Zeeland, I have to say that we would have been hopelessly lost on several occasions.
checkered flag

And, where are we, you ask? (Perhaps you do not.) We are in Burgh-Haamstede in a seaside resort community where K’s grandmother came from. In fact, we are less than a mile from where her house stood (or may still stand – we must investigate further).
the school2
We got out of the car at the supermarket on the first evening and discovered that the school she attended as a child was right next to us. This school has been made into a museum and we have made arrangements, through various sources to make a special visit on Tuesday. And all this goes back, too, to our meeting the parents of a friend of Middle’s who are also from here. J, in fact, has parents close by and her father P is very interested in our learning about the area and its history. They are meeting us for drinks tonight after dinner.

On our first day we rose early and rushed off to see a flower parade honoring the Dutch floral industry. There were a dozen or so floats made entirely of flowers depicting, of all things, Broadway shows. The boys were amused by this wry twist. To have come all this way to see Dutch people singing show-tunes….after the parade, and some pastries, we attempted to travel to The Hague. We made three unsuccessful attempts to enter the city but the traffic and our frustration (mainly mine, as the driver) turned us away.

In a moment of brilliance we decided to drive into Delft and, with the help of a kind stranger, found an underground parking garage. (Welcome to Holland, a guy in a crowded parking lot exclaimed, always a traffic jam and no parking!)

Church Delft

It was market day but we stopped in a pub first. Seriously, the amount of beer and cheese  we’ve consumed in two days is astounding – not that you’d be surprised to hear this. The pub was wonderful. Local people were drinking beer and we sat at a big round table. The barkeep described the beers to us and brought us a tray of meats and cheeses. Oh, the wurst! Oh the cheese! Oh the crowds!

cheese man Delft

Back out on the square we bought some Delft ware and admired candy and toys and flowers (which are four bunches for 5euro if you are Dutch but three for 5 for me) and had a wonderful time watching K eat raw herring. If you don’t see photos here click into my flickr and look!

bikes Delft

This morning we had breakfast at the local bakery and walked through the town while everyone was in church. The boys have gone over the dunes to explore German bunkers.

I’ve put in a load of laundry and am sitting on the patio listening to children play while the birds sing. I’ve read that the weather is so variable that the Dutch sit outside on days we might not consider warm enough and that certainly seems to be true.

Grolsch

Happy Birthday Grammy!

bon voyage

My office friends were so sweet yesterday. People made me promise to come and say goodbye (I don't say goodbye) or check in with them before I left. My friend A brought me a beautiful cookie another pal was sad to not be there for lunch, it was all very kind.
But I, as you may well imagine, had that anxious day-before-the-big-trip feeling all day and couldn't shake it. My boss has been traveling for weeks (which cuts my daily workload considerably) and I had accomplished everything I needed to to tie up loose ends by about 3:00 and I started to go a little crazy.
My pals at the other end of the building kept me company for a bit, I did my away voicemail and out-of-office note for my email, I briefed my fill-in assistant on the week ahead.
Meanwhile, it's Poetry Month (more on that later) and we are having a haiku contest. (As I am leaving, I have not entered.)
I started to make the rounds to see people before I left.
The Art Director was cute and overworked and demanded I return to the office as soon as possible.
Another friend told me she dreamed I left for six months. (Do I really have such a presence at my office?)
I went to say see you later to my friend C but her door was closed.
D was scooting out the door and stopped for a hug...Don't forget to wear red underwear on the plane! she admonished.
My anxiety ratcheted up a notch. Maybe two.
I don't own any red underwear. I panicked. I am not one to take these things lightly and D has authored a book about luck and superstition. She knows her stuff.
I ran across the street in a frenzy, hit three huge stores and found a pair.
Back at the office, I cleared my desk and made my escape.
Settled on the train, I received emails.

from C:

Conversation: A haiku
Subject: Re: A haiku

I came to see you
Five euro in my pocket
Lost their chance again.


to C:
I came to see you! 
Your door was closed!
Miss you already.  

from C:
A phone interview
ruined our chance at 
goodbye.
Mary Tucker* who?


I've left the office before but never for this long. It's bittersweet and I need the time away - though this isn't meant to be a relaxing trip, it's a touring trip (and more on that later too).
I'd like to close my eyes and be there as it's going to be a very long day/night/day and I have the aforementioned pre-trip anxiety.
Fear not - I've got it covered.

underwear


















*a pseudonym for the woman filling in for me.

emails from my brother - read from the bottom up

Begin forwarded message:

Subject: Re: when

OOOOHHHH dutch baby pancakes! eat those!

I'll wear all your dresses...

b

On Apr 11, 2011, at 6:04 PM, bb wrote:

Raw herring? No. Pannekoeken (pancakes).
If the plane goes down everything is yours. Have fun cleaning out the garage.

Ttyl. Xo



On Apr 11, 2011, at 5:59 PM, B wrote:

have fun.

eat something dutch for me.

like... pretzels.... no that's pennsylvania dutch.

how about cobbler? no, that's dutch oven, which really has nothing to do with the dutch.....

that's all i got....

have fun anyway.

b

On Apr 11, 2011, at 5:52 PM, bb wrote:

Thursday.



On Apr 11, 2011, at 5:26 PM, B wrote:

When do you leave for the land of dutchness?

b

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Hi Ms.,  (I really do hate that.) (though Bridget doesn't know my name either!)
I wanted to let you and everyone in your sphere of influence (my "sphere of influence?") know that tomorrow, Tuesday, April 12 is National Licorice Day!

The makers of Red Vines have released findings of a fun Personality Quiz about people who prefer red vs. people who prefer black licorice. (Spoiler: Red are practical, sensible and down-to- earth, Black are spontaneous and adventurous) (that would be me).

Fun Facts about Licorice:

Licorice is the second largest selling premium candy (after chocolate).

There is an estimated 30 million pounds of licorice produced worldwide each year.

Made from wheat and sweeteners and flavorings, licorice is basically unleavened bread. (Shut the front door!)

Licorice root is one of the most popular herbs in the world. Its botanical name comes from the Greek words meaning "sweet root."

Glycyrrhizin is the botanical name for the Licorice plant (maybe, but how do you say that?). It is native to southern Europe, Asia, and the Mediterranean; it is extensively cultivated in Russia, Spain, Iran, and India.

Licorice is one of the oldest candies in the world. A large amount of licorice was found in King Tut's tomb when it was discovered in 1922.

Napoleon Bonaparte found licorice soothing during battle. (You make it sound like he applied it to his head.)

It was used by Chinese herbalists to help with digestion. The ancient Romans believed it increased virility.

Also to celebrate Nat'l Licorice Day, the company is sponsoring a "World of Sharing" website to grow a 'vine' of positive messages around the world. Over 20,000 messages have been posted so far. 
( http://www.redvines.com/world-of-sharing) . It’s inspiring to read the messages others have posted.  (Inspiring may be a strong word.)

Please contact me if I can connect you with a rep from Red Vines for comments.  

Hope you have a happy Licorice Day!  

Bridget  
(Thanks Bridget, you too!)



all things black and beautiful

Two co-workers have had babies in the last week and it's my job to have a gift sent.



A burden I carry with ease.



I do wonder, though, at the way I am drawn to these outfits. I'm sure I've worn #12 and #14.



I tried on a down coat similar to this at Banana Republic a long time ago. I should have bought it. I still look for it.

But it's 80 degrees today and I'm admiring this.

Screen shot 2011-04-11 at 2.18.57 PM
(from Toast!)

I've been wracking my brain to come up with a coat for my trip.


Don't think about it. Too expensive.



I do this ALL THE TIME, with candles, and I never get the glass part right.

Look. It's Monday.